MLYSL 2011 PARENTS NEED TO KNOW
Completed Registration Packet – will consist of:
o Completed and signed CYSA Form 1601
o Signed Parent/Caretaker Ethics Agreement Form
o Copy of registrant’s Certified Birth Certificate or an immigration visa, a passport or official government issued identification; (unless registrar has cleared player for having a certified copy already on file)
o A good recent 1.25 X 1.50 picture of registrant -no sunglasses, masks or hats that cover the face, not too dark or too light and it needs to look age appropriate.
o Signed Volunteer Deposit Form and deposit amount
o Signed Fundraiser form with or without buyout option if necessary
o Full Payment
o Signed and completed Special Request Form if needed
o Signed and completed Buddy Draft Form if needed
o Signed and completed Scholarship Request form if needed
Late Registration: Late registration will begin May 8 and will end September 1. Registration fees will increase by $15.00 on May 8. Players registering after the registration deadline are placed in a Player Pool on a first come, first serve basis per age division. Players may stay in the Player Pool until roughly two weeks after the season start date. In the event a player cannot be placed on a team all documents will be shredded.
Request Policy: Must be on MLYSL “Special Request Form” or for Under 6 players use the “Buddy Draft form” that is completed, signed and turned in with registration packet.
Volunteer Deposit Fee and Waiver: Please note that every family is responsible for paying the volunteer fee. Your fee will be refunded upon completion of 2 hours of work for the club
Fundraising: Every Player is REQUIRED to participate in fundraiser if scheduled.
Check Policy: All checks returned to MLYSL will be charged a $15.00 Bad Check Fee. Any player, coach or sponsor with an outstanding balance due to MLYSL, WILL NOT be able to play, coach or sponsor a team until the balance is paid in full by Certified Funds (cash, money order or cashier’s check) for the outstanding balance and any future transactions with MLYSL.
Refund Policy: MLYSL will refund your payment minus a $15 CYSA fee:
Until July 31 – in full
Between August 1 and August 15 – 50%
No refunds after August 16.
PET POLICY: Please remember that pets (including small dogs) are not allowed at CYSA, District 8 and MLYSL events, including practices and games. District 8 and MLYSL defines “PETS” as any animal that wiggles slithers, crawls, hops, walks or squawks. FAILURE to remove pet from MLYSL soccer complex will result in games being forfeited. Please tell relatives and friends coming to the game of this policy. It will be strictly enforced this season.
RED CARD POLICY: Any player, coach or spectator who is ejected (“red-carded”) or suspended from a game shall leave the MLYSL Soccer Complex (i.e. they may not be a spectator for that game or any other games for the length of their suspension)
Coaches will contact players after August 4, 2011
THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS ALLOWED
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Player’s Name Signature of parent/guardian
MLYSL Parent Sideline Ethics Agreement Policy ________________________________________
Player’s Name (Print)
Purpose – Parents play an important role in helping their own children and other players learn good sportsmanship and self-discipline. They must set an example when it comes to demonstrating the importance of working together, to sacrifice for the good of the team, to enjoy winning, and to deal appropriately with defeat. The Mother Lode Youth Soccer League encourages parents to enjoy youth soccer for what it is – children having fun. Coaches, parents, and spectators should be role models of good behavior on the sidelines. In line with this purpose statement, the MLYSL will require that parents sign a “Parent Sideline Ethics Agreement” prior to their child participating. That agreement shall state the following:
_______ 1. I understand the fun of soccer is playing, not winning
Parents should always encourage children in skill development and l00 percent performance. Winning is not their motivation. They want to have fun. So lighten up, decrease the competitive pressures, and encourage skills, teamwork, self-esteem, and good sportsmanship. Enjoy this opportunity to be with your child.
________ 2. I will strive to understand the game and the laws of the game
Soccer looks simple but it is complex to play, coach, and officiate. You’ll enjoy the game more by understanding soccer skills and tactics, the flow of play, and how the game is played. Soccer is free-flowing with ever-changing situations and constant problem solving by the players. Soccer is physical and demanding. With few timeouts, it is fun to watch. Understand the basic laws and increase your enjoyment of the game.
________ 3. I will support the team, not just my own child
Give encouragement to the entire team. Don’t ever give your child instructions. Soccer is above all a player-dominated game, and they have to make the decisions on the field. Always be positive, win or lose. Don’t get over involved. Applaud good play by either team.
________ 4. I will demonstrate good sportsmanship
Always show your sportsmanship and enthusiasm. Young people learn by example. Encourage your child to play by the rules. Cheer good play by both teams. Ask your child: “Did you have fun and try your best?” rather than “Why didn’t you win?” Win gracefully, not boastfully. Lose without being negative. Make sure the end-of-the-game rituals (like the handshakes) reflect good sportsmanship.
________ 5. I will let the players play
Soccer is a players’ game. Children participate for their enjoyment, not yours. Remember this is their experience. Playing is more important than winning to children, while winning is more important to parents and coaches. Emphasize player development and having fun over winning.
________ 6. I will let the coaches coach
Your coach provides guidance, skill instruction, and supervised fun for your children in soccer. Respect the coaches and their decisions. Their concern is the whole team, not just your player. They need your support. Don’t undermine, second-guess, or criticize a coach in public. Most coaches will listen to parents in private.
________ 7. I will let the referees judge the game
Soccer referees control the game the moment they enter the grounds. They respect fair play, sportsmanship, skill, and the spirit of the game. The referees always believe they made the proper call, and they do have the authority to remove a player, coach or spectator (parent, grandparents, the sideline). Support the referees.
________ 8. I will come to the games in the spirit of fun
Meet other parents and coaches. Make sure your children come on time ready to play – with the proper equipment and attitude. Help them develop the skills and tactics for the game. Kick the ball around with them. Soccer isn’t easy to play, so don’t criticize your player for losing or making mistakes—applaud good effort.
________ 9. I will be a supportive soccer parent
Volunteer to help. Soccer teaches discipline and responsibility, so be on time. If you can’t be on time, then be early. Support the coach in any way possible. Be more concerned with your player’s long-term development of skills and tactics than with short-term winning and losing. Focus on skill accomplishments and effort.
________ 10. I understand that they are only kids and this is only a game
Allow your child to be a child. Kids see soccer as fun, learning new skills, emulating heroes, being on a team, gaining success by touching the ball, and just being involved. Soccer can teach skills for life, it builds character, self-esteem, and awareness of others. If players do their best, there’s no such thing as a loss. You’ll see great progress if fun and skill development are your priorities.
________ 11. After the game, I will reinforce the positive aspects of soccer
The ride home is sometimes as important as the game itself. Make that time a good memory for your son or daughter by discussing as many positives as you can about him/her, the coach, and the teammates.
________ 12. Pet Policy: Please remember that pets (including small dogs) are not allowed at CYSA, District 8 and MLYSL events, including practices and games. District 8 and MLYSL defines “PETS” as any animal that wiggles, slithers, crawls, hops, walks or squawks. FAILURE to remove pet from MLYSL soccer complex will result in games being forfeited. Please tell relatives and friends coming to the game of this policy. It will be strictly enforced this season.
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Father’s/Guardian’s Signature Print Name
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Mother’s/Guardian’s Signature Print Name